+13303068669 (3 weeks ago) call Me: Hi its amber (1:51 PM) +13303068669: Hey whats up (1:52 PM) Me: Working and sneaking some texting in between rooms (1:52 PM) +13303068669: Lol and u picked me to (1:54 PM) +13303068669: talk to (1:54 PM) Me: Not just you but I thought texting might be easier than messaging on plenty of fish site (1:55 PM) +13303068669: Yur right so when do u get off (1:57 PM) Me: 6 then I am going to my parents house and heading out to the fair with them (1:59 PM) Me: Going to the fair tonight. I am totally a fair food junkie =) and the rides are so much fun. They should have fairs all summer long. Monday I am going to lake milton for picnic and jet skis if your not doing anything you should stop out. (1:59 PM) +13303068669: The fair or the lake? (2:04 PM) Me: Aren’t you going to the fair? I thought everyone around here went. (2:06 PM) Me: I was talking about the lake. Going to be the last beach blast of the summer (2:07 PM) +13303068669: I was gonna (2:07 PM) +13303068669: Go monday with ariel (2:07 PM) Me: Who’s ariel? (2:08 PM) +13303068669: My daughter (2:08 PM) Me: That is nice. Should be a lot of fun for you. (2:10 PM) +13303068669: Shes like me in alot of ways (2:11 PM) Me: If you don’t mind me asking do you talk to a lot of girls from plenty of fish? Just wondering because I know it takes a bit to get to know someone enough to want to date them (2:13 PM) +13303068669: Do u mind guys w kids (2:13 PM) Me: My friend said I should talk to a few and see who I get on with best. (2:14 PM) Me: No I don’t mind guys with kids. (2:14 PM) +13303068669: To be honest w u i was talkin to u and 2 others but u seemed more mature and settled (2:16 PM) Me: We really didn’t talk much on there (2:17 PM) +13303068669: Yur profile seemed more mature (2:19 PM) Me: I am not a young girl but I am not an old maid either. (2:20 PM) +13303068669: The one only wanted sex and the other one didnt want kids (2:21 PM) Me: Most men on plenty of fish are just looking for sex (2:21 PM) Me: I want kids someday just not right now with school and work it wouldn’t be fair to a child I would have no time for them (2:23 PM) Me: I only have a year left then ill be done with school. Then I can start to think about having children. (2:25 PM) Me: So is having more children important to you? (2:26 PM) +13303068669: It is but it isnt id like to have a couple more in the next few yrs and then be done i just dont wanna be like my dad and having kids at 40 lol (2:29 PM) Me: Your still young you have time for more kids. Better to find a good woman first who will be there before having kids and being stuck dealing with someone you can’t stand. (2:32 PM) +13303068669: Yea like my (2:33 PM) +13303068669: daughters mom (2:33 PM) Me: My mom wanted kids pretty bad had me with my father then realized he wasn’t the man she thought he was. They don’t even speak. (2:36 PM) +13303068669: Wow my pArents been divorced since i was 7 (2:38 PM) Me: I think its sad when you have people making kids just to make kids because they want kids and don’t think about the future or what the child will have to go through (2:38 PM) Me: My mom and father were never married (2:40 PM) +13303068669: Yea she used ariel for welfare (2:40 PM) +13303068669: And child support (2:40 PM) +13303068669: Ive come from a broken home it sucks but i am who i am cuz of it (2:42 PM) Me: Or try to use children to trap the other person. Men and women do that. My best friend is pregnant because her boyfriend put a hole in the condom so she would have his child and he had a tie to her and control over part of her life (2:42 PM) +13303068669: Dayum (2:43 PM) +13303068669: Well hun (2:44 PM) +13303068669: I gotta go ariel wants me (2:44 PM) +13303068669: To go swmming (2:44 PM) Me: And who are you? (2:45 PM) +13303068669: Mike (2:46 PM) Me: You said your who you are because of the broken home that is why I asked who are you? (2:47 PM) Me: Have a nice swim with your daughter. Its nice to see a dad spend time with his children. (2:49 PM) +13303068669: A person who had trust issues and anger issues but im working on the trust issues everytime i think i know someone i get stabbed in the back (2:49 PM) Me: Sometimes when you have been hurt your always looking for something wrong in people to keep yourself from getting hurt again. (2:51 PM) Me: My mom tells me if you look hard enough you will always be able to find something wrong with someone else (2:52 PM) +13303068669: Yur right yur not a scorpio are u lol (2:52 PM) Me: My mom almost missed out on the great man my stepfather is because she was so sure he would cheat and lie like my real father did she looked for things to show he was doing it (2:55 PM) Me: She kept trying to push him away and almost did. (2:56 PM) Me: I believe no relationship is ever going to be perfect but if you really love someone you will make every effort to be there for them with them and show them how much they mean to you. To many people want everything to be easy and life and a real relationship isn’t always going to be easy. (2:59 PM) Me: Any relationship that is easy or person your with who doesn’t get mad or want to fight once in a while is trying to hide something they are doing from you. That is my experience anyway (3:02 PM) Me: I should shut up and let you swim with your daughter. My mom says I talk to much sometimes. =) (3:03 PM) +13303068669: Yur fine hun (3:36 PM) Me: I think everyone has that one person they are meant to be with and everyone else is practice (3:48 PM) +13303068669: I agree (3:48 PM) Me: You think you met your one yet and maybe the timing was off? (3:51 PM) Me: My mom and stepfather met in high school but didn’t get together till much later. Kept running in to eachother through out the years and finally figured they would give it a try. Been together 22 years now (3:53 PM) +13303068669: Yea but im ready to settle down (3:53 PM) Me: She wasn’t ready to settle down? (3:54 PM) +13303068669: Daughters mom? (3:55 PM) Me: You said you met your one but your ready to settle down. (3:55 PM) +13303068669: Yea i ready but i guess i attract partiers and psychos i just want a normal relationship (3:59 PM) Me: Four years is a long relationship and your profile says that was your longest. (3:59 PM) +13303068669: It didnt go anywhere (4:00 PM) Me: if you don’t mind me asking what happened for you to not be together still after that long? (4:00 PM) Me: It takes two people to make a relationship work out. (4:01 PM) +13303068669: She lied cheated and i didnt know until the guy told me alla bout it (4:02 PM) Me: And you believed the guy? (4:03 PM) Me: I had a girl tell me my boyfriend cheated with her and we broke up over it only to find out later she lied because she was jealous of me (4:04 PM) Me: Was that your daughters mother? (4:05 PM) +13303068669: He had a necklace i bought her she left plus he knew where her tats were (4:07 PM) +13303068669: No it wasnt we broke up before our daughter was born (4:07 PM) Me: A lot of people know where my tattoos are that I haven’t ever done anything with.I have pictures of them up when I had myspace. People can be sneaky and vengeful when they are jealous. (4:09 PM) Me: I have always believed there are two sides to every story and the real truth is somewhere in the middle of them (4:11 PM) +13303068669: Shes Never shown her tats (4:12 PM) Me: Not defending her but maybe she had a friend who had it in for you and set it all up just to screw up your relationship. I have lost friends over boyfriends when they didn’t like eachother. (4:14 PM) +13303068669: They had a video of it she didnt know (4:15 PM) Me: That sounds like a set up (4:17 PM) +13303068669: Well she still did it (4:18 PM) Me: Some people make mistakes they have to live with. I cheated on someone once because I was mad and he had cheated on me so I felt I was justified to do it back. (4:20 PM) +13303068669: I never cheated on her (4:21 PM) Me: He found out and broke up with me said I was a cheater and he deserved better than to be with a cheater. But he had cheated on me and that was ok with him. Even blamed me for him cheating said I spent to much time at school. (4:21 PM) +13303068669: Ok (4:22 PM) Me: I was wrong to cheat two wrongs don’t make a right but to blame me because he cheated was just messed up. (4:24 PM) Me: Tell me about yourself the good and bad (4:25 PM) +13303068669: Whatcha wanna know (4:25 PM) Me: What you like don’t like what you do for fun or to relax what your goals and dreams are. The basic everything =) (4:26 PM) Me: Why you chose to go online to look for someone (4:28 PM) Me: Would you ever date an ex again? ( I ask everyone that because there are a couple exs I might date again) (4:31 PM) +13303068669: Well i like to hang out with my friends and my daughter i love Spicey foods football country rock music video games id like to go back to school i hate (4:31 PM) +13303068669: liars n cheaters and fake people (4:31 PM) Me: Have you ever dated more than one person at a time? (4:33 PM) Me: What do you want to go back to school for? (4:37 PM) +13303068669: Not a player and i wanna go back for video game marketing (4:42 PM) Me: Dating or talking to more than one person doesn’t make you a player if everyone involved knows what is happening (4:46 PM) Me: You good with computers and math? (4:46 PM) +13303068669: Good with comps not so much (4:47 PM) +13303068669: Math (4:47 PM) Me: Need math for marketing (4:48 PM) +13303068669: Ill be okay lol (4:49 PM) Me: You seem like you will. I am going for a major in obgyn nursing with a minor in psychology (4:51 PM) Me: The mind is a amazing thing (4:58 PM) +13303068669: Yea (4:59 PM) Me: How was your swim? (5:01 PM) +13303068669: Refreshing lol (5:02 PM) Me: People leave these rooms so gross sometimes I would hate to see their homes (5:05 PM) +13303068669: Lol so where would u wanna go if u decide to wanna meet me? (5:10 PM) Me: We can designate a place when we deside if we are going to meet. (5:12 PM) +13303068669: K so where ya from again? Sorry ever since my brain surgery ive had a bademory (5:14 PM) Me: Brain surgery? (5:15 PM) +13303068669: I have hydrocephalus i got a shunt replacement 9yrs ago in sept (5:16 PM) Me: Originally pa right now girard at my parents house (5:16 PM) Me: Wow not common but nothing that stops you from having a full life. (5:17 PM) +13303068669: Had (5:18 PM) +13303068669: It sucked (5:18 PM) +13303068669: So where did u come up with twizzted love? (5:19 PM) Me: The surgery isn’t enjoyable but at least your disability doesn’t keep you from doing to much. (5:19 PM) +13303068669: Still sucks tho lol (5:20 PM) Me: You can’t be a summo wrestler but you can do pretty much anything else (5:20 PM) +13303068669: No football either (5:21 PM) Me: My friend thought of it because we have had some really messed up relationships (5:21 PM) Me: Football is over rated (5:22 PM) Me: Im more of a hockey girl (5:22 PM) +13303068669: Thats cool well hopefully ull find one that works out for u (5:22 PM) Me: Where did you come up with supacrash? (5:23 PM) Me: Everyone deserves a good relationship and to find that special someone im not in a hurry though going to finish school and most guys want to be your main focus and I don’t have time for needy or clingy (5:25 PM) Me: I hope the same thing for you. =) (5:25 PM) +13303068669: Well ive liked superman since i was a kid and crash was my dj tag name (5:25 PM) Me: You were a dj at a bar? (5:26 PM) +13303068669: I dont do well with the stage 5 clingers lol (5:26 PM) +13303068669: Yes (5:26 PM) Me: You still doing it? (5:27 PM) Me: How did you get into that job? Isn’t that hard to do with a little girl since its a late night job? (5:28 PM) +13303068669: No it got boring cuz it was the same songs same people i got into it cuz of my recent ex then she wanted me to quit cuz i was a better dj than her and th (5:30 PM) +13303068669: e attention wasnt focused on her (5:30 PM) Me: I can’t stand the people who feel the need to share every little thing them and their partner are doing with everyone else (5:31 PM) +13303068669: Well my mom watched her and i had to move back home for a lil while (5:32 PM) Me: Why quit just because she wanted you to? (5:32 PM) Me: If you liked it and were good at it then you should have kept doing it despite what she wanted. Sounds to me like she is a bit controlling (5:34 PM) +13303068669: Cuz she got insanely jealous when other women were on me but other guys were allowed on her (5:34 PM) +13303068669: Well the money sucked too (5:35 PM) Me: She sounds like someone who needs attention and to control who she is with. (5:36 PM) +13303068669: Thats y i kicked her to the curb (5:37 PM) Me: She was jealous because she was doing something she shouldn’t have been doing. And she liked men on her because it showed you she could replace you if you didn’t give her enough attention or what ever she wanted from you (5:38 PM) +13303068669: True (5:38 PM) Me: She is older than you I bet (5:38 PM) +13303068669: 35 (5:39 PM) Me: That is to old to act like that. (5:40 PM) Me: Most women that age are either settled down with families or starting families not djing at bars letting men get on you when your boyfriend is there with you (5:42 PM) Me: That is disrespectfull and childish gives older women a bad name. (5:43 PM) +13303068669: Well she had kids but they live with their dad (5:49 PM) Me: Fathers don’t usually get the kids unless the mother is unfit (5:50 PM) Me: Is she your four year relationship? (5:51 PM) Me: You said before you want more kids did you and her ever talk about having them? (5:53 PM) Me: If I am nosey or its none of my business you can tell me so it wont offened me at all. (5:54 PM) +13303068669: No shes not the 4yr and we talked about it but she needed to get unfixed (5:56 PM) Me: That is expenceive to do and you would have to be pretty serious about someone to go through that. (5:57 PM) Me: And you said being a dj the money sucked so how would you guys have afforded it? (5:58 PM) Me: No offence but with how you have said she acted why would you want to have children with her? (5:59 PM) +13303068669: I dont just dj and she was never like that before (6:12 PM) +13303068669: Hey can u send me a pic (6:13 PM) Me: Maybe she was and you didn’t see it because you didn’t want to (6:14 PM) +13303068669: No she changed (6:14 PM) Me: I dont have internet for picture mail (6:15 PM) +13303068669: Well ill just hafta see u in person 😛 (6:16 PM) Me: That is a big change if you are serious and talking about having surgery to have children. Unless she didn’t want more children but told you she did. (6:17 PM) +13303068669: Everyone said she didnt want more so she lied (6:18 PM) Me: I hope you haven’t paid for the surgery already (6:18 PM) +13303068669: Hell no (6:19 PM) Me: That is a big lie that can not only ruin your relationship but really hurt someone (6:19 PM) +13303068669: It did (6:19 PM) Me: She pretended to be someone she wasn’t to get you to be with her the slowly she became her real self after you and her had been together for a while and she felt secure that you would stay with her no matter what she did (6:21 PM) +13303068669: Yea i was smart (6:22 PM) Me: Does she do anything other than dj? Or were you paying for the surgery? (6:23 PM) Me: Didn’t you see signs of what she was really like? How could anyone change that much if they weren’t like that to begin with. (6:24 PM) +13303068669: Well last time i heard she wasnt djing anymore (6:25 PM) +13303068669: Shes closet crazy (6:25 PM) Me: No one warned you? Where were your friends? (6:26 PM) +13303068669: Noone told me shyt (6:27 PM) Me: Those aren’t very good friends to have then (6:27 PM) +13303068669: I got rid of the ones who knew (6:28 PM) Me: Sounds like you got sucked in by a black widow who just wanted someone to take care of her (6:30 PM) Me: How did she treat your daughter? You ever meet her kids? (6:30 PM) +13303068669: She loved ariel and ariel loved her i (6:31 PM) +13303068669: Met her kids once on a wim (6:31 PM) Me: I feel bad about your daughter if she loved her and you broke up with her has to be hard on her (6:32 PM) Me: I could never get that close to someones kid and be lying to them about who I am and what I want (6:33 PM) Me: I hope you don’t fall back into her trap sounds like you really loved her and still do (6:35 PM) +13303068669: I hope not and dont worry i wont throw her yur way until we are comfortable with each other thats when we meet and click (6:36 PM) Me: Sounds a bit like your on the rebound and have unresolved feelings for your resent ex. (6:37 PM) Me: Or you wouldn’t have answered I hope not to falling back into a relationship with her. (6:38 PM) Me: You seem like a very sweet guy but I don’t want to be someones rebound (6:40 PM) +13303068669: O im over her trust me its been a few months trust me there is no rebound (6:40 PM) Me: You sound like you still love her though (6:41 PM) Me: Like you would go back if she acted like she did when you first got together with her. She sounds like a good actress and would be able to do it (6:42 PM) +13303068669: If i did id be back with her there no feelings left i have no use for a liar (6:42 PM) +13303068669: Nope she had her chance i could see past her bullshit (6:44 PM) Me: Not talking about your daughter and I mean no disrespect but it sounds like she used your daughter as a way to get to and keep you. Single parents will stay with people who show affection to their kids and ignore alot of obvious things because of it (6:44 PM) +13303068669: U might be right but shes gone and i moved on (6:46 PM) Me: So you said you recently moved back home were you and her co habiting then (6:47 PM) +13303068669: Yea (6:48 PM) Me: I was just thinking about your daughter was all that someone would come into their lives knowing they were lying to the parent is wrong on so many levels (6:48 PM) +13303068669: I know it was come to find out i wasnt the first person she did this too (6:50 PM) Me: I wouldn’t want to meet someones child untill we had been dating at least 6 months and we were stable and sure of our future together. Bringing people in and out of a childs life to often can really do harm to the child and their veiw of healthy relationships (6:51 PM) +13303068669: True (6:51 PM) Me: And not to kick you when your down but being from a divorced family I would think you would be extra careful with your own daughter. (6:53 PM) +13303068669: I know i have a very big soft spot (6:54 PM) Me: Keep women away from her untill you know you found the one who wont get your daughter to love her then be gone (6:54 PM) +13303068669: Ill take my time with u 😉 (6:56 PM) Me: Kids from divorced families already have trust and abandonment issues so people coming in and out of their lives like that can cause very serious problems for them (6:56 PM) Me: I wouldn’t meet her even if you wanted me to if I wasn’t sure you and I had a real future together it isn’t fair to her (6:57 PM) +13303068669: I know (6:58 PM) Me: Maybe that’s why you find the wrong kind of women. Your attracted to people you can’t have a future with because subconsciously you expect them to lie or cheat so you pick the ones that will. (7:04 PM) +13303068669: Get out of my heAd lol (7:06 PM) Me: You would have a real hard time believing someone wouldn’t cheat on or lie to you so if you did fund someone like that you would unknowingly sabotage the relationship by accusing and suspecting they are when they really weren’t (7:07 PM) Me: I bet there are a few people you have been in relationships with who really didn’t do anything wrong but because of your insecurities you pushed till they left (7:10 PM) +13303068669: Yea im guilty of that (7:11 PM) Me: Sorry I just finish a semester of behaveural psychology (7:11 PM) Me: Can I make a suggestion (7:12 PM) +13303068669: Sure (7:12 PM) Me: Don’t date for a while just stop looking all together. You need to figure out how to not keep repeating the same relationship mistakes you have been making or you will never get what your wanting. (7:14 PM) Me: Divorced children seek affection from other people to make up for what they didn’t have at home. They are sereal daters but usually can’t make one last cause they go for the quick love and affection high without really looking at what they are getting (7:16 PM) Me: Your setting a example you don’t want your daughter to follow but by bringing so many different people around her then they are gone she will repeat your patteren (7:17 PM) +13303068669: Ive been single long enuff (7:17 PM) Me: If what you want is to settle down and have more kids ill be very honest with you she wont be on a free online dating site or in a bar. (7:18 PM) +13303068669: Bar no (7:19 PM) Me: Most of the people on the free sites are looking for one of two things a quick jump in bed or someone to pay for everything while they have some fun. Almost none of them are looking for true love or a future husband/ wife (7:21 PM) +13303068669: Well then im fked lol (7:22 PM) Me: They make a pretty good profile saying all the right things just to get some hits then are nothing like they claimed to be (7:22 PM) +13303068669: I am exactly what i said i am (7:24 PM) Me: Im warning you about other people (7:24 PM) Me: I am going to get some fried oreos and my mom is yelling cause I am texting while walking around the fair so ill send you a message when we get out of here (7:25 PM) +13303068669: K hun have fun (7:26 PM) Me: I just had the best thing ever =) (8:50 PM) +13303068669: What (8:52 PM) Me: Deep fried snickers (8:54 PM) +13303068669: Bring me one plz (8:56 PM) Me: I ate it all you should try them when you come out here (8:57 PM) +13303068669: I have (8:58 PM) Me: There are really good next is ice cream and apple dumplings and french fries (9:01 PM) Me: Where is a good place to go on a Saturday night where people don’t get to drunk cause me and my friends are not big drinkers (9:45 PM) Me: She says quaker steak in Sharon (9:46 PM) +13303068669: They have karaoke there (9:53 PM) Me: Is it a nice place (9:56 PM) Me: I don’t sing well (10:02 PM) +13303068669: So what its just for fun hope u had a good time (3:15 AM) Me: Not really no (3:18 AM) +13303068669: Y not (3:19 AM) Me: Don’t really like bars ir going to them (3:24 AM) +13303068669: Thats cool i dont do bars often either (3:25 AM) Me: I try to avoid them completely (3:28 AM) +13303068669: Well we wont go to any if something comes out of this (3:29 AM) Me: I don’t usually date people who frequent them either. I think alcohol causes people to do stupid things (3:32 AM) +13303068669: I havent been to one since i quit djing 6months ago (3:33 AM) Me: Did you used to go a lot? (3:34 AM) +13303068669: It was my job (3:35 AM) Me: I meant other than for work. (3:36 AM) Me: Drunk people say and do things they regret and try to blame the alcohol when no one made them drink it (3:36 AM) +13303068669: Yea but. It got old (3:36 AM) +13303068669: I know thats y i quit (3:38 AM) Me: I quit going about 6 months after I turned 21 was a waste of money and wasn’t really fun (3:38 AM) Me: Made it hard on you with a girlfriend who was a dj then I wouldn’t trust my boyfriend to do that without me being around (3:39 AM) Me: Drunk people get flurry and forget they have a partner (3:40 AM) +13303068669: U know i might be jumping the gun but we seem to have alot in common when it comes to views on things (3:41 AM) Me: Flirty (3:41 AM) Me: On some things not on others but no two people are alike in every way (3:43 AM) +13303068669: Right soooooo umm wheres my pic lol (3:44 AM) Me: I told you I don’t have internet for picture messages cost to much with tuition (3:44 AM) +13303068669: O yea sorry (3:45 AM) Me: I don’t even have internet at home I use the schools computers for thay (3:45 AM) +13303068669: Ooooooo (3:46 AM) Me: To be honest I am looking for a friend someone to hang out with nothing real serious (3:46 AM) +13303068669: Oooooo (3:47 AM) Me: With school and work I don’t have a lot of time to devote to someone and it wouldn’t be fair to expect someone to date me and not see me much (3:47 AM) +13303068669: I see its cool tho (3:48 AM) Me: Im sure with work and a daughter to take care of you know what its like to not have time for romance (3:49 AM) +13303068669: I have plenty of time cuz i make time for it (3:50 AM) Me: I hope you do find that perfect woman your looking for you seem pretty sweet (3:50 AM) +13303068669: I am (3:50 AM) Me: It isn’t always that easy though my schedule changes all the time last boyfriend couldn’t deal with it and stressed me out (3:51 AM) +13303068669: I (3:51 AM) +13303068669: have patience (3:52 AM) Me: School comes first I have time for real romance after that (3:52 AM) Me: And im not ready to settle down and have kids just yet (3:52 AM) +13303068669: K i understand (3:53 AM) Me: You said you wanted that wouldn’t be fair to you (3:53 AM) Me: I am going to turn in now it has been a long day (3:58 AM) Me: Hello are you enjoying the rain this fine Sunday? (2:33 PM) +13303068669: No we r at the fair soaked lol (3:23 PM) Me: Is it Monday? (3:25 PM) +13303068669: No sunday (3:25 PM) Me: You had stated you were going monday so I was confused about what today was =) (3:27 PM) Me: Food is still good in the rain =) (3:41 PM) +13303068669: Ariel wanted to go today (4:14 PM) +13303068669: U shouldve came (6:09 PM) Me: I had to work today (9:05 PM) +13303068669: Oo (10:05 PM) Me: Looking forward to the lake and cookout tomorrow you should come =) (10:06 PM) Me: I don’t like boardman police (2:00 AM) Me: Police officer pulled me over said I was swerving and he thought maybe I was drunk. It was raining hard and I couldn’t see very well =( (2:02 AM) Me: Im sorry =( I didn’t realize it was so late (2:06 AM) Me: I was hoping you and I could be friends. I know we weren’t looking for the same relationship goals right now but I thought we were getting along pretty good. I wish you Godspeed on your search and hopes that it is fruitful for you finding the one. (12:40 PM) +13303068669: Who said i didnt wanna be friends (12:43 PM) Me: So how is your online search going for you? (1:23 PM) +13303068669: Eh (1:32 PM) Me: Not finding good options? (1:33 PM) +13303068669: Nope all they want is sex (1:33 PM) Me: Never thought I would hear a man complain about a woman wanting sex (1:35 PM) +13303068669: She was. Nasty lookin (1:37 PM) Me: That does seem to be more of a looking for sex not looking for potential relationships site (1:39 PM) Me: To find a real relationship the paid sites seem to work better and have more success (1:40 PM) Me: It is a little cold to be in a bikini today =) (1:42 PM) +13303068669: Id like to see that lol (1:47 PM) Me: I invited you to the lake (1:50 PM) Me: My brother burnt the hamburgers (3:09 PM) +13303068669: Sorry (4:29 PM) Me: It was funny (4:30 PM) +13303068669: Lol (4:46 PM) +13303068669: Whatcha doin (10:49 PM) Me: Heading back home (11:11 PM) +13303068669: Sounds fun (11:13 PM) Me: Had a good time today you should have come (11:15 PM) +13303068669: Well i didnt wanna Feel awkward plus seein u in a bikini wouldve givin me dirty thoughts lol (11:18 PM) Me: Awkward at a lake with lots of people. Loosen up (11:19 PM) +13303068669: That i dont know (11:21 PM) +13303068669: Lol (11:27 PM) Me: You don’t know the people you talk to on the plenty of fish site its the same thing (11:27 PM) +13303068669: Lol i know (11:28 PM) Me: And your not shy (11:30 PM) +13303068669: No i misunderstood i thought ur fam was goin (11:31 PM) Me: My family friends lots of people went (11:32 PM) +13303068669: See if i was gonna meet u id like it to be 1 on 1 (11:33 PM) Me: I don’t like doing it one on one the first time security thing (11:41 PM) +13303068669: I see (11:42 PM) Me: I have bad experiences meeting people one on one for the first meeting (11:43 PM) +13303068669: Im not a psycho (11:44 PM) Me: No offence but I don’t know that no psycho would say to someone “by the way I am a psycho” (11:45 PM) +13303068669: Besides i thought u said u didnt have time for relationships (11:47 PM) Me: Friends hang out also or are you only interested if someone what’s to date you (12:01 AM) +13303068669: Im ready for a relationship (12:03 AM) Me: Then you don’t want to be friends (12:04 AM) +13303068669: Didnt say that im just sayin i want a gf (12:05 AM) Me: You almost sound like a girl (12:06 AM) Me: You don’t like to be alone or single do you? (12:07 AM) +13303068669: Ive been single long enuff (12:08 AM) Me: A couple months isn’t very long if your looking for someone to settle down with like you said you wanted to. (12:09 AM) Me: Jump too fast and you’ll end up like you did with your recent ex thinking they want something that they don’t actually want (12:10 AM) +13303068669: Been longer then a couple months (12:10 AM) Me: You said it has only been a couple months the other day when we were talking (12:11 AM) +13303068669: 6 (12:12 AM) Me: You said 2 months (12:13 AM) +13303068669: No (12:15 AM) Me: Just unique to hear a guy so determined to have a girlfriend and want more kids now. (12:25 AM) +13303068669: Im not like most guys (12:26 AM) Me: Its been nice talking to you (12:36 AM) Me: I thought we could ne friends hang out and talk because you seemed more mature and realistic than most guys my age (1:01 AM) Me: But your looking for someone ready to jump into a relationship and settle down and since im not you don’t want just friends (1:02 AM) +13303068669: I didmt say that hun (1:02 AM) Me: Your so focused on wanting a relationship your not really looking at who the women truly are just that they say they want to settle down (1:04 AM) +13303068669: No (1:05 AM) Me: Women online iwil say what ever just to get you into the bed and know that they can keep you (1:10 AM) +13303068669: U were online ur not lookin for a fk buddy (1:11 AM) Me: I have found out most people on that site aren’t even single just looking for extra circular people to mess around with (1:14 AM) +13303068669: Okay (1:15 AM) Me: I am very strait forward about who I am and what I am looking for I have caught 3 different guys in lies already (1:15 AM) +13303068669: Well i dont play games and dont lie (1:17 AM) Me: Everyone lies sometime its what they lie about (1:18 AM) Me: Do you have more than one profile? I saw another one that had your picture on it. (1:19 AM) +13303068669: No i dont thats weird (1:20 AM) Me: Almost identical to the one your using (1:23 AM) +13303068669: Really? so obviously i have a copycat (1:24 AM) Me: It even responded to a message I sent you (1:25 AM) +13303068669: O really (1:26 AM) Me: Yes I didn’t know what was going on (1:26 AM) +13303068669: Thats fked up (1:28 AM) Me: Sounded a lot like how you do not voice of course but verbiage wise (1:33 AM) +13303068669: Well u did email me on pof today (1:34 AM) Me: Yes (1:36 AM) +13303068669: Did u send hi? (1:37 AM) Me: The first one then we had a 6 or 7 message conversation and it was your user name (1:38 AM) +13303068669: Ok (1:39 AM) Me: Was that you I was talking to (1:39 AM) Me: You told me your phone was dead that is why you were talking to me on there and not testing me (1:41 AM) Me: Texting me (1:44 AM) +13303068669: No (1:45 AM) Me: How could someone be talking to me on your account? (1:46 AM) +13303068669: They probably made a duplicate so to solve that problem just talk to me thru txts (1:49 AM) Me: You can’t use a user name someone already has though. Wonder if they have talked to anyone else you have been talking to (1:50 AM) +13303068669: Found the other profile (1:59 AM) Me: Same picture and user name (1:59 AM) +13303068669: Nope diff (2:00 AM) Me: One I saw was identical to yours were even both online at the same time (2:01 AM) +13303068669: It might have been me (2:02 AM) Me: It was shown twice and only one responded to me and wasn’t a computer glitch cause it has happened multiple times now (2:04 AM) +13303068669: Had to have been a glitch (2:05 AM) Me: I don’t know had a conversation with me and was your user name unless someone got on your account (2:06 AM) +13303068669: I dunno but im frusterated (2:08 AM) Me: What are you frustrated about? (2:09 AM) +13303068669: U dont wanna know (2:11 AM) Me: Ok (2:14 AM) +13303068669: I think u know (2:16 AM) Me: No I don’t know and you don’t have to tell me it is your business (2:19 AM) +13303068669: Sexually frusterated (2:20 AM) Me: You said you have had people who that is what they wanted from you right? (2:22 AM) Me: I haven’t had sex in almost a year (2:22 AM) +13303068669: But i dont want just a booty call and yur long over due lol (2:23 AM) Me: I don’t think of it that way I wont have sex if I don’t love someone (2:25 AM) Me: You can always do what you did when you were a teenager (2:26 AM) +13303068669: Hun i was kidding (2:26 AM) Me: And I am just stating what I believe. To many people will have sex with just anyone because they can or to improve their numbers. I think sex should only be shared if you love the person your with because it is too intimate to just so with anyone (2:28 AM) Me: I don’t get a lot of repeat dates because I don’t put out id rather be single than have sex with a lot of men just to have sex. (2:29 AM) +13303068669: I dont like easy women (2:31 AM) Me: I think people who have a lot of sexual partners have low self esteem and real lack of respect for themselves and the people they are having sex with (2:32 AM) +13303068669: Ty that hurt (2:33 AM) Me: How did that hurt you? (2:34 AM) +13303068669: Cuz ive been With Quite a few (2:35 AM) Me: Why so many? (2:36 AM) Me: What have you been substituting sex for in ur life? (2:37 AM) +13303068669: Cuz im a guy and have needs and i was young and if yur gonna judge me for my past then there is no reason to talk a anymore i dont like judgemental peopl (2:40 AM) +13303068669: e never have never will (2:40 AM) Me: I am a woman and I have needs but I don’t think sleeping with random people is worth the risks (2:42 AM) Me: I wasn’t judging you I just asked a question you are the one who got defensive (2:43 AM) +13303068669: I knew them im not a whore (2:43 AM) Me: I never said you were you room offence to the statement on your own so in some way your numbers bother you (2:45 AM) Me: Its just I have a different point of view on some things than you do. Has a lot to do with my life (2:50 AM) Me: Like how you are has a lot to do with your upbringing also I would bet (2:51 AM) Me: How are you today? (6:13 PM) +13303068669: Good i guess (7:09 PM) Me: That doesn’t sound like it is good (7:11 PM) +13303068669: Just tired i didnt sleep well (7:12 PM) Me: How is your dating quest going? (7:12 PM) +13303068669: Well i am interested in u but yur not lookin (7:14 PM) Me: I would have to get to k ow someone before I would consider dating them. Weren’t you talking to other women also? (7:15 PM) +13303068669: Dead ends (7:16 PM) Me: I told you most people on their lied on their profiles about what they are looking for (7:17 PM) +13303068669: Yea (7:17 PM) Me: I don’t know why people pretend to be something they are not when the truth always comes out (7:19 PM) +13303068669: Yep (7:20 PM) Me: That’s why I don’t lie (7:25 PM) +13303068669: Good (7:26 PM) Me: I just wish other people would be like that (7:30 PM) +13303068669: Yea (7:31 PM) Me: One word answers are not good for conversation (7:43 PM) +13303068669: O im sorry i was helpin my daughter w her hw (7:45 PM) Me: =) (8:24 PM) Me: That is good that you help her (10:07 PM) +13303068669: Hun not a good time im pretty irritated (10:08 PM) Me: What is wrong? I am a good listener if you need to talk. (10:14 PM) Me: I am at work but im here if you need a friend. (10:15 PM) +13303068669: Besides the bitch who hit me 3 weeks ago dont have insurance so i gotta come up with $500 (10:17 PM) +13303068669: For the deductable (10:17 PM) Me: Wow I am sorry to hear about that (10:23 PM) +13303068669: Its okay (10:24 PM) Me: Can your family or friends help you? (10:24 PM) +13303068669: Nope (10:25 PM) Me: Maybe you can get a dj job for a while. You said you were good at it. (10:25 PM) Me: Did you message me on plenty of fish? I got a message from your account a little while ago. (10:27 PM) +13303068669: Yea (10:27 PM) Me: I thought you didn’t want to talk on there. Although that was a polite blow me off note (10:31 PM) +13303068669: Huh (10:32 PM) Me: I hope you get lucky and find someone realistic and honest on there (10:37 PM) +13303068669: I found u (10:51 PM) Me: Your still looking (10:53 PM) +13303068669: Who says? (10:53 PM) Me: So i am wishing you luck finding the one (10:53 PM) Me: You said your still on there looking but only found dead ends (10:56 PM) +13303068669: Yur still on there too (10:57 PM) Me: Trying to figure out who the other you is contacting me (10:58 PM) Me: I got an A on my first psychology test this semester (9:38 AM) +13303068669: Cool (12:06 PM) Me: Only got a c on advanced calculus though (12:09 PM) Me: So how goes the search? (10:07 PM) +13303068669: I was in the er (10:08 PM) Me: Who got hurt? (10:08 PM) +13303068669: Me (10:09 PM) Me: Oh my gosh what happened? (10:09 PM) +13303068669: Got my hand cut on glass 7 stitchez (10:10 PM) Me: How did you do that? (10:11 PM) +13303068669: Glass platter broke (10:12 PM) Me: Doing dishes? (10:19 PM) +13303068669: Yes it droppes (10:25 PM) Me: Who is Jessica? (10:31 PM) +13303068669: Huh (10:33 PM) Me: Got a text message from your phone from a girl named Jessica (10:55 PM) +13303068669: When (10:56 PM) Me: Said you are dating her friend and have been for over a year and I needed to stop messaging you. (10:57 PM) Me: Around 930 tonight (10:58 PM) Me: Around 930 tonight (10:59 PM) Me: Then I got a message from you on plenty of fish when you said we weren’t to message on there any more just text. (11:00 PM) +13303068669: How didpq (11:01 PM) Me: Didpq? (11:02 PM) +13303068669: How did that jessica message u (11:02 PM) reply mark unread archive
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